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How does one succeed in life?

14.06.2025 00:19

How does one succeed in life?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

What type of narcissist cheats more and gets pleasure out of hurting you, even if they're married?

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Procrastinates a lot.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Why am I not getting any atheists to debate with? Are they scared?

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Ask yourself:

Why after 50 years of being straight do I constantly desire to suck cock?

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Do not set goals—set systems.

How can one justify in Sweden that total subsidies for public green energy initiatives being approximately 8.2 billion SEK per year? Electric cars at market price typically cost an average of 500,000 SEK which is above household budgets.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Is there any evidence to support the existence of people who have experienced "gangstalking"? Or is it a psychological phenomenon?

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Can anyone or anything overthrow your belief in the Jewish God?

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

How does a person become transgender?

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Why do almost all the girls on Quora look beautiful?

Does not procrastinate.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Do you ever feel like you are doing good, but would do better if people hadn’t blamed you or even bothered you? I have gotten lonely, but I always am up to something (creating my destiny).

That's it for today.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Why do I sweat a great deal while exercising the same on some days and not so much on others?

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Should parents be allowed to bring children into R-rated movies? What are the potential consequences of doing so?

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

What I need from you?

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Making more friends is a goal.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.